New home, new feelings: a happy update.

At the beginning of August, Katie and I moved in to a beautiful suburban house together, just 10 minutes’ walking distance from my workplace, and a mere three-minute walk from the parents. It was the perfect house in the perfect location, as if it was waiting for us to find it. My spiritual side would … Continue reading New home, new feelings: a happy update.

Anti-Perfectionism: A lesson on being objective and owning your shit

So, I learned another life lesson recently: “Be objective and own your shit.” When things don’t go to plan and mistakes are inevitably made, it is so tempting to dive right on into the blame-game. It’s too easy to assume that being the perfect victim in a scenario is the preferred position, in as much … Continue reading Anti-Perfectionism: A lesson on being objective and owning your shit

New Year, New… eh, whatever: Feb marks the beginning of the end of the health kick

Yo. February has arrived, and... I’m not so motivated by self-care right now, not like I was in the New Year. I’m not exactly off the rails but I just... give less of a shit. Maybe it’s the added pressure of work getting to me? Maybe. Whatever. I’m very 'chill' right now. It’s the weekend … Continue reading New Year, New… eh, whatever: Feb marks the beginning of the end of the health kick

Oh hey, New Year: Three life lessons I learned from the Breakdown of September 2017

Hi there! Yeah, it’s been a while since I blogged. Let’s just say that my whole “recovery”/”spiritual healing journey” hit a bit of a speed-bump in September. This speed-bump came in the form of a flu-inducing tick bite, followed by the stress of catching up with work, segueing nicely into a nervous breakdown. I know, … Continue reading Oh hey, New Year: Three life lessons I learned from the Breakdown of September 2017

The Gender Identity Debate: What’s that all about?

Let’s talk about gender identity! “BLEURGH” I hear you cry, “not ANOTHER lecture about gender identity!” Well... sorry (not sorry). Regardless of whether you believe there are two "and only two" genders, or you believe we should smash the socially constructed binary, or you are on the fence, or hopping between sides, or wherever… it’s … Continue reading The Gender Identity Debate: What’s that all about?